It was one of the ironies of history that many of the women who most
vociferously advocated the traditional virtues of the stay-at-home housewife
were themselves independent career women living by their wits outside the
domestic sphere. Hannah Woolley was said to be the first woman ever to
earn her living by writing, but in her book The Gentlewoman's Companion
(subtitled A Guide to the Female Sex) she laid down the law when it came
to achieving feminine perfection: those who were not modest, almost completely
silent and did not know about preserving fruit and curing constipation
simply stood no chance of getting a husband and would be held in "meer
pity" by the rest of society, particularly other women. It was this pity,
says Woolley, which drove her to pen this self-help manual in 1673 for
the woman who wishes to become a lady, to learn "the laudable sciences
which adorn a compleat gentlewoman".
It was tremendously hard work: you secured a husband by keeping your
mouth closed while eating, and learning French, and when you were married
you had to remember details such as not to "suck your knuckles" while carving
fowl. And frivolities were out: patches, powders, even farthingales.
The seventeenth-century compleat gentlewoman toiled away acquiring skills
which she would then pretend she didn't have, or had at least effortlessly
acquired, in the interests of preserving the modest restraint which was
her hallmark. (Though Woolley breaks her own rule by including a long list
of her accomplishments: still, I suppose she had to keep an eye on her
career.)
Nothing is left to spontaneity - least of all courtship. A quick flick
through The Gentlewoman's Companion gives you a useful response to a keen
suitor: "Sir, I have absolutely render'd myself up to the disposal of my
dear parents, consult them: if you prevail on their consent, you shall
not doubt the conquest of my affection."
But what makes this book so fascinating is the sense of sheer hard work
involved in running a seventeenth-century household, the vivid details
it gives of daily life. It's hard to imagine that a woman who kept her
eyes always downcast would have been able to oversee cheese making, the
preparation of sometimes extraordinarily complicated foods, preserving
for the winter, slaughtering animals. Woolley includes a guide to what
food is seasonal: green geese in April, mince pies in January, pigeon pie
in August. There is a long section on remedies for various ailments. Demure
she may be, but the gentlewoman is not squeamish and a good thing too when
the best way to cure corns was to rub live black snails on them.
This wonderful new edition of the Companion, beautifully produced, comes
with an excellent introduction by Caterina Albano and an equally excellent
glossary.
Introduction,
67.
The duty and qualification of a Governess to Gentlewomens Children,
69.
A short account of the Life and Abilities of the Authoress of this
Book, 73.
Good Instructions for a young Gentlewoman, from the age of Six to
Sixteen, 76.
Advice to the Female younger-sort, 78.
The duty of Children to their Parents, 81.
Of a young Gentlewomans deportment to her Governess and Servants
in the Family, 83.
What Qualifications best become and are most suitable to a Gentlewoman,
86.
Of a Gentlewomans Civil Behaviour to all sorts of People in all places,
88.
Of the Gait or Gesture, 91.
Of the Government of the eye, 92.
Of Speech and Complement, 94.
Choice and general Rules for a Gentlewomans observation in Conversation
with Company, 95.
Rules to be observed in walking with persons of honour, & how
you ought to behave your self in congratulating and condoling them, 102.
Of habit, and the neatness and propriety thereof; Of Fashions, and
their ridiculous apish Imitation, 102.
Of New Fashions, 107.
Of young Gentlewomens fit hours and times for their recreations and
Pleasures, and how to govern themselves therein, 120.
What Recreations and Pleasures are most fitting and proper for young
Gentlewomen, 121.
Of the guiding of a Ladies love and fancy, 124.
The Gentlewomans Mirrour, or Patterns for their imitation of such
famous Women who have been eminent in Piety and Learning, 131.
Of Marriage, and the duty of a Wife to her Husband, 134.
Of Womens behaviour to their Servants, and what is to be required
of them in the House, or what thereunto appertains, 137.
Terms for Carving all sorts of Meat at Table, 140.
Quaint Directions for the Carving of all manner of Fowl, 141.
Artichoaks Fried, 143.
Artichoaks stewed, ibid.
An Almond-Pudding, ibid.
An Almond-Pudding in Guts, ibid.
An Almond-Tart, ibid.
Almond-Cream, 144.
Apple-Cream, ibid.
Apricocks green Baked, ibid.
Barley-broth, ibid.
Bisk, ibid.
Beef Hashed, 145.
Beef A-la-Mode, 146.
Beef Carbonadoed, ibid.
Beef baked red Deer fashion in Pies or Pasties, either Sirloyn, Brisket,
Buttock or Fillet, larded or not, ibid.
Beef Collared, ibid.
Brawn, how to make a Collar, 147.
Brawn made of a Sucking-Pig, otherways called a Souced Pig, 148.
Calves-head roasted, ibid.
Calves-foot Pie, or Neats-foot-Pie, ibid.
Capons Souced, 149.
Calves-Chaldron Mince-Pies, ibid.
Capon or Chicken in white Broth, ibid.
Chicken-Pie, 150.
Clouted Cream, ibid.
Cabbidg-Cream, ibid.
Carp stewed, 151.
Carp Marinated, ibid.
Carp Roasted, 152.
Deer red and Fallow Roasted, ibid.
Deer Baked, ibid.
Egg Mince-Pie, ibid.
Florentines on Paste, or without Paste, ibid.
Flowers of all sorts pickled, 153.
Grapes and Goosberries Pickled, ibid.
Geese Boiled, ibid.
Hashes several ways, ibid.
Hashes of Neats-feet, or any feet, as Calves, Sheep, Deer, Hogs,
Pigs or Lambs, 154.
Hashing of any Feet, 154.
Hares Roasted without, and with the skin, ibid.
Ipocras, ibid.
Jellies of several Colours, for all sorts of Souc'd. Meats, and to
be eaten alone, 155.
Land or Sea-fowl, how to boil them, ibid.
Land-Fowl the smaller sort, how to boil a[s] Plovers, Quails, Black-birds,
Railes Thrushes, Snites, Wheatears, Larks and Sparrows, ibid.
Marrow-Pudding in a Dish baked, garnished with Puff-past, 156.
Mutton hashed the French way, ibid.
Marinated Mullet, Bace, Gurnet, or Rochet, ibid.
Mullets Fried, 157.
Mullets or Bace baked, ibid.
Mushrooms Fried, ibid.
Mushrooms stewed, ibid.
Neats-tongues Boiled, 158.
Neats-tongues Stewed, ibid.
Neates-tongues an excellent way how to dry them, ibid.
Neats-tongues roasted, ibid.
Neats-tongue Mince-Pye, 159.
A Norfolk fool, ibid.
Oysters Stewed, ibid.
Oysters Fried, ibid.
Oyster-Pyes, 160.
Oysters Pickled, ibid.
Ox-cheeks Baked in a Pye, ibid.
A Calves-head-Pye, 161.
Puff-past, the best way how to make it, ibid.
Panadoes, ibid.
Posset of Sack, Claret, or White-wine, the best manner, ibid.
Pumpion-Pye, 162.
Pig Roasted with the Hair on, ibid.
Pidgeons Boiled, ibid.
Pike Boiled, 163.
Pike Stewed, ibid.
Pike Souced, ibid.
Pike Roasted, ibid.
Quaking Pudding, 164.
Quince-Pyes, ibid.
An excellent Restorative for a weak back, ibid.
A most incomparable Broth or Drink for a sick person, 165.
Rice-Tart, 165.
Rice-Cream, ibid.
Another excellent and rare Cream, ibid.
Several excellent Sauces for several Dishes, and first for Green-Geese,
ibid.
Salmon Roasted, 167.
Salmon Fried, ibid.
Souc't Veal, Lamb, or any Joint of Mutton, Kid, Fawn or Venison,
ibid.
Taffety-Tart, ibid.
Venison how to recover when tainted, 168.
To make Beef, Ram, or Mutton pass for Venison, ibid.
Warden Tarts, ibid.
A Bill of Fare of Sutable Meat for every Month in the Year, 169.
Bills of Fare for Fasting-days, or Lent, 171.
An Introduction to Physick and Chyrurgery, 173.
What is to be observed by a Gentlewoman before she undertakes the
administration of Physick, 175.
A most approved Receipt for a Quartane Ague, 178.
For a sudden and violent bleeding at the Nose, ibid.
To stop the bleeding of a Wound, ibid.
An approved Medicine of London-Midwifes to break and heal Womens
sore Breasts, ibid.
An excellent way to dry up a Womans Breast, 179.
An infallible way to increase Milk in Womens Breasts, ibid.
Against a stinking Breath, ibid.
For a Cancer in a Womans Breast, ibid.
For young Children who by reason of the weakness of their Limbs can
neither stand nor go, ibid.
An approved China-broth for a Consumption, 180.
A most excellent Jelly for the Consumption, ibid.
An excellent Comforter for the Stomack, and helper of Digestion,
181.
A well-tried Medicine for the Corns on the Feet or Toes, ibid.
An excellent Diet-drink for the Spring to purge the Blood and cleanse
it, ibid.
A Remedy for the Dropsie, whether hot or cold, ibid.
Another for the Dropsie, ibid.
For the Web or Pin in the Eye, 182.
To cleanse the skin of your Face, and make it look beautiful and
fair, ibid.
How to ripen and heal a Felon or Whitelof, ibid.
How to cure the bloody Flux, 182.
A Cure for every sort of Gout, ibid.
How to cure the Green Sickness, 183.
An Universal Medicine of wonderful use both for Man and Woman, ibid.
Against the Yellow Jaundies, 184.
Against the Itch, ibid.
Against Kibed Heels, ibid.
What is best to be administred to one sick of the Meazels, ibid.
To cure the Fits of the Mother, 185.
To take away the heat of a Burn or Scald, ibid.
For a Scald-head, ibid.
For one burnt with Gun-powder, ibid.
A very safe Clister to be used by either Man or Woman who is much
bound or costive, ibid.
How to cure old Sores on the Legs which have been of so long standing
that the Bones have appeared, 186.
An excellent way to dissolve the Stone, ibid.
A way not only to prevent but to cure the Toothach, or to make an
aking Tooth fall out of it self, ibid.
How to order a Woman with Child, before, in, and after the Dilivery,
ibid.
An excellent Cordial for Women troubled with swooning Fits in Travel,
187.
Of Candying, Conserving and Preserving, 189.
Barberries Preserved, ibid.
Pears Preserved, ibid.
Green Pippins, ibid.
Black-Cherries, 190.
Mulberries, ibid.
Oranges and Lemons, ibid.
Goosberries Preserved, ibid.
Roses, or any other Flowers, 191.
Cherries, ibid.
Apricocks, ibid.
Green Walnuts, ibid.
Eringo-Roots, 192.
Ennula-Campana-Roots, ibid.
Conserve of Roses, ibid.
How to Candy all sorts of Flowers as they grow with their Stalks
on, 193.
Candied Eringo-Roots, 193.
The best and most approved way to dry Plumbs, ibid.
Proper Colours for Fruitage, 194.
Quince Marmelade, ibid.
How to make Syrrup of Violets, ibid.
Syrrup of Roses, ibid.
Syrrup of Coltsfoots, 195.
Of Distillation, 196.
Dr. Stevens his famous Water, ibid.
Aqua Mirabilis, 197.
Water for the Eyes, ibid.
An admirable water against the stone in the Kidnies, ibid.
An excellent Water for the Worms, ibid.
An excellent artificial Wine like Claret, 197.
An Oyntment for any Wound or Sore, ibid.
A Searcloth for all Aches, ibid.
What things belong to a Country Gentlewoman; Of Dairies, and making
Butter and Cheese, 200.
How to make your ordinary clouted Cream, 201.
To make fresh Cheese in Cream, ibid.
Cream of Codlins, 202.
To make a Junket, ibid.
To Gentlewomen who serve Persons of Quality, 203.
To all Maidens who desire to be Chamber-maids to Persons of Quality,
205.
Instructions for all Nursery-maids in Noble Families, ibid.
Instructions for all Chamber-maids to Gentlewomen in City and Country,
206.
To Nursery-Maids in London or elsewhere, 207.
To Cook-maids, 208.
Under-Cook-maids, 209.
Dairy maids, 210.
Laundry-maids, ibid.
House-maids, 211.
Scullery-maids, ibid.
Writing Letters, 212.
The Resolute Lover: A Pastoral Dialogue, 232.
Addresses of Love and Service, from Erotus to Aurelia. 233.
A merry Dialogue between an ingenious Gentlewoman and a Poetaster
or Rimer, 235.
A form of Discourse at a casual meeting between Silvester and Sylvia,
237.
A method of Courtship on fair and honourable terms, ibid.
An impertinent and lying Travellers Discourse with his witty and
Jocose Mistress, 239.
A Gentleman accidentally hapning into a room where a Company of Ladies
were well known to him, 241.